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Welcome to my blog!

I recently published my self-improvement book "Note to Self: A Collection of Thoughts on Life" available below:

Note to Self: A Collection of Thoughts on Life

I thought to start this blog as a way to share the rest of my thoughts, whether they be book-related, self-improvement, my favorite things, or random tid bits of life. Welome :)

-Cheryl Cherian

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